In 2002, in preparation for the 1-year anniversary of the Civil Unrest in Cincinnati that occurred in April the previous year following the death of Timothy Thomas (and became known as the Cincinnati Race Riots), I was asked to facilitate conversations between different groups of college and senior-level High School students on their thoughts about racial barriers in the City. A 60-90 second clip from these conversations was aired every evening for 30 days leading up to the one-year anniversary on a local TV station’s 11:00 p.m. news program, culminating in a 30 minute special at the end of the month called “Breaking Polite Silence.”
In the aftermath of Trayvon Martin’s death, I’ve been doing an informal survey with
clients, as well as participants at the recent International Society of Diversity and Inclusion Professionals in Puerto Rico in April — asking if the Trayvon Martin case is being discussed at work? The answer has always been the same. “No.” Blacks have said, “Of course we talk about it among ourselves, but it’s not being discussed with our other co-workers.” I think this says a lot about the extent to which we have (or haven’t) created an inclusive work environment.
This has been a major story on national news for weeks. If we are striving to have an inclusive work environment, wouldn’t it seem that we would reach out to our Black co-workers (those with whom we have developed a relationship of trust) to ask, “How are you feeling about this? What are your thoughts? Has something like this happened to you or others you know in the past? When something like this happens, how does it affect you at work? Does talking about it help?”
“Polite Silence” appears to be the norm when it comes to discussing racial events that are “in the news” within the workplace. Sounds like the OJ Trial all over again, and how long ago was that?
Why should these discussions be occurring at work?
- Because it says “I care.”
- Because it says I recognize that it’s important for everyone to be able to bring their ‘whole self’ to work every day.
- Because it says I want to continue to learn – and while initiating this conversation may be a bit uncomfortable, it’s important. And I understand that as a member of the majority group, I recognize that I have to be the one to initiate the conversation.
- Because if we can begin to talk about what is happening outside of our workplace, perhaps we will become more comfortable talking about what is happening in our workplace – which is a necessary component of being an “inclusive work environment.” The goal is not to get everyone to agree and see everything the same way – it is simply to have a conversation.
Please share your thoughts and reactions. The conversation has begun…….
Patricia C. Pope
CEO, Pope & Associates, Inc.
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